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Expectations and Protocols.

It is always the fear of not knowing what to expect that makes one hesitant.  But when we meet you will know that your experience with Me will be with a truly sincere Dominant Woman.  I believe in taking My time and slowly building our
session together; building your anticipation, toying with your mind and body while teasing you.  I enjoy getting to know you a little bit and talking before our session begins.  Our session will flow smoothly into an erotic BDSM encounter.  So relax and just enjoy while I take control.

Etiquette On the phone with Me:

  1. The ONLY reason to call Me is to book an appointment.  If you have questions or are nervous then Email  Me, or join Me in My private chat on Yahoo IM (PhoneDomina).  You may also reserve an in person consultation  or you may book a dinner meeting with Me if you feel the need to get to know Me a little first before our first Session.  

  2. While you are on the phone with Me please be professional and courteous.  Get to the point with booking your appointment.  I am a busy Woman and although I very much enjoy what I do, I find that there are too many people out there that are all talk and no action.  If you feel the need to have an extended conversation with Me (Longer than 10 minutes) then I suggest you book a Phone Session with Me.  I of course will speak to you and go over your interests in order to assure we are compatible with each other.  Please just be conscious of My time while we are on the phone together.  I have no issue answering questions for you that cannot be answered on My site, but again I prefer those questions to be directed to Me via email.  

  3. When calling do NOT use descriptive language or details.  If you do this I will hang up.  I am sure other Dommes do not mind going over every little detail, but that is NOT My style.  When I ask of your interests you are welcome to use My interest list from My Sessions page to describe what you find enjoyable.  We will of course go more in depth with your fantasy when we meet.  I understand many want to make sure they are meeting a Domme they are compatible with, but My list of interest should confirm what I ENJOY quite clearly in order for you to determine if you want a session with Me.  

  4. I will verify you, expect it, accept it or move on.  I screen EVERY NEW client I meet with so I can verify you are who you say you are, you also have the option to meet Me in public prior to our session if you do not want to do My verification over the phone (takes about 5 minutes over the phone).  I am INVITING you to My PRIVATE location, My safety and discretion are imperative.  At the same time I respect your discretion.  I NEVER keep any information on you nor do I care to keep any information.  I will give you a special name to use for the next time we meet so I will know you have been screened before and so that I know I have seen you before.  My screening is a one time process.  I value My reputation and am a professional, discretion is assured.  

  5. While we are on the Phone have a pen and paper handy.  I will give you directions or instructions and it is your responsibility to make sure you write them down so you do not forget or get lost coming to My place.

Session Etiquette:  

 

  1. During our session you may not grab at Me or touch Me inappropriately without My permission.

  2. If you need to cancel your appointment please make sure you do so with at least a days’ notice.  Failure to cancel with-out notice will incur a $100 cancellation fee.  Please always remember to call if you cannot make it to your appointment with Me.

  3. If you make an appointment and no show for whatever reason with-out calling I will require you to pay for your missed session and your new session up-front via credit card or I will have to blacklist you and will not book any future appointments with you.  

  4. Do not ask Me for ANY sexual favors EVER!  I am not a prostitute.  (If you ask for such things during our session I will throw you out with-out a refund).  

  5. I will give you a safe word when you arrive; I give everyone a safe word.  

  6. I have no interest in blackmail so do not ask Me to do it.  

  7. I prefer to see gentlemen 28 years of age or older. (I will consider some slightly younger,depending on your maturity level).  I am open to playing with couples and Women as well.

  8. Same day appointments are available with 2 hours notice. ​

  9. Remember no drugs and No drinking before or while we are together.  

  10. And if you remember anything, remember to be a gentleman.  Good old fashioned manners goes a long way with Me.  

  11. If you arrive and decide you do not want to follow through with your appointment you will be required to pay for the full Donation, after all, I did set aside time for you, if you fail to comply you will be blacklisted.

  12.  If you have clothing requests that are very specific I will require a days notice.  If I do not have your requested article of clothing I will require you to purchase it for Me.  (I own latex tops, dresses and skirts I own leather dresses and skirts all short, I own corsets in leather and satin, I own an array of Victorian type of long skirts and mild steam punk outfits, I have short and long fetish petticoats, stockings, thigh high boots, heels, hose, fishnet, I also own some Vinyl skirts and tops as well as an array or bustiers/longline bras, tasteful lingerie and more).  

     


     

Cancellations:  when you call to book an appointment IT IS SET, just as if you had a Dr's appointment, business appointment, etc.  If you cancel your appointment the same day your appointment is set I will require a $100 cancellation fee.  If you pre-book your appointment and cancel with at least a days notice, I will not charge this fee.  If you cancel your appointment AFTER you have confirmed (usually I will ask you to confirm 2 hours before and will give you directions) then you will be required to pay the full fee for our session.  Respect My valuable time.  If you no call no show you will be banned.  If you can not make your appointment, I simply ask you take the time to call and let Me know, do NOT text or email to cancel or I WILL still consider you a no call no show.

 

Always remember you are here for My pleasure.  

 

My rules are MY rules, learn them and respect them.  

What to expect:
 

  • When you call, expect Me to ask you questions, do not speak over
    Me or argue or debate on the phone with Me or I will hangup.  I am
    friendly and outgoing but I am busy so expect Me to get to the point
    on the phone so I can get your appointment booked.  If you feel
    nervous and prefer to meet first I offer an array of consultations and
    dates.

  • Expect to meet with a genuine Southern, out spoken and playful
    assertive Woman.  

  • Expect and prepare for us to talk candidly about our session when
    you arrive before we start to play.  

  • Our session will start slow, we will talk and then I will progress and
    take control.

  • You can expect Me to give you a safe word.  

  • Expect to be physically inspected by Me upon your arrival, if I feel
    you need a shower I will ask you to take one or you can request one
    when you arrive.  

  • Expect Me to enjoy our session, I am different and unique, My
    sessions are not scripted, I am creative and playful and I love to play,
    you will know this instantly.

  • As far as how I dress, I typically wear things anywhere from Latex,
    Leather, Lingerie, Vinyl, corsets, dresses, skirts, heels, stockings,
    boots, etc.  I have a variety of attire that I enjoy wearing.  My makeup,
    hair, nails and pedicures are always immaculate just as you see in
    My photos.  

  • I will require you to speak to Me appropriatly such as yes Mistress, no Mistress, thank you Mistess, etc.  

  • I expect you to be a gentleman and to be respectful and to treat Me like a Lady, good old fashioned manners go a long way with Me, so bring them with you.

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